When you are intimate with an important female friend, but you get an erection at a critical moment, it is often a huge problem for men.

If such a situation continues, some people will begin to worry about "whether or not the relationship between these people will produce a gap".

In this article, a medical specialist with erectile dysfunction explains in detail the factors that contribute to erectile dysfunction.

At the same time, he also explains how to respond to women in front of their friends, as well as the important points of maintaining their precious emotions 纽带.

 

Psychological factors for getting an erection in front of a female friend

When you are preparing for a sexual act, if your female friend suddenly gets an erection, it is possible that it is related to psychological factors.

The following is a concrete explanation of the psychological factors that affect these minor factors.

For Sexual Behavior,压力与紧张

When a girl is very happy with her friend and her feelings toward her are strong, it is easy for her to get an erection from pressure such as "I want her to be happy".

In addition, if you get too tense in front of your girlfriends, it is possible that you will get an erection.

Psychological Injuries in the past

If they have been inadequately expressed in their sexual behavior in the past, or have been subjected to criticism or rejection, it is possible that they will suffer psychological damage, and this will lead to erection difficulties.

For义务性性性行为的压力

If they think that "just because they see a female friend, it is only natural for them to engage in sexual activity," sexual activity becomes a requirement, and from this pressure arises, men who get erections are less likely to be seen.

关系进入倦怠期与新鲜感的缺失

Each sexual act follows the same process, and it is easy for the relationship to fall into a fixed pattern, resulting in a sense of ennui.

When the sense of novelty is weakened, some men may change their behavior and become irritated.

Ego evaluation is low and shameful

If she is not satisfied with her own behavior, it will cause her to lower her self-esteem.

In addition, when the duration of their relationships is longer and the number of sexual acts is lower, men are more likely to feel "shame due to prolonged sexual acts.

Low self-esteem or a sense of shame is often a common cause of long relationships among men.

Decrease in the relationship between a companion and a partner

If there is a dispute between you and your female friend, or if you see your partner appear, the relationship between you and your female friend will deteriorate, and you will feel pressure or exclusion from your partner more easily.

The problem has already been resolved, but you can still get an erection.

What to do when you have an erection in front of a female friend

When they are not in front of their important female friends, men may experience anxiety and guilt such as "how will they feel when they meet her" and "I'm disappointed in her.

In this way, the following is a guide to how to respond to a female friend's request in front of her.

Increased opportunities for communication

If you want to hide your erection, it is a common thought among many men.

However, if they are aware of their own feelings of guilt or shame, the symptoms will worsen.

In addition, if the sexual activity is suddenly interrupted, the female friend may develop a sense of distrust.

If you want to avoid this kind of situation, first of all, please express your feelings in a frank manner.

We will be able to increase the number of opportunities for communication, and we will also be able to deepen the emotional connections between the two parties.

Use of medicines to treat ED

If the cause of erection in front of a female friend is psychological, it may be possible to improve the condition with ED treatment.

ED疗药物在产生性欲時，可通过扩张血管或抑制妨碍勃起的酶，从而对性行为起到辅助作用。

However, there are few cases of psychological erectile dysfunction that can be improved by using ED treatments that can help to complete the erectile dysfunction more quickly, and by gradually building faith.

Psychological treatment and consultation

ED诊疗指南，针对心因性ED的精神治療疗，包括的心理疗法 as shown in the table below.

psychoanalytic method	supportive psychosomatic treatment	concentrated treatment of the senses
autogenic training	hypersensitive treatment	focal point method
companionship	sex education	training in masturbation

 

The combination of the above-mentioned psychological treatment methods, psychological consulting, and ED treatment drugs will lead to a more effective treatment.

该如何向女朋友说明？ 不破坏关系的表达要点

Whenever a woman is confronted by a friend, many men are concerned about "whether or not she will break the relationship" or "if she suddenly avoids sexual activity, she will be suspected of having done it.

I often feel uneasy when my female friends tell me what they really think.

The following is a list of important points to keep in mind when communicating with a female friend under the assumption that there is a current relationship.

Use I information importing and displaying

Do not use the phrase "I feel" or "I am concerned" etc. as the main phrase to express your feelings.

When she uses YOU information, it is easy for them to understand that she is pointing the finger at them, which adds to the distance between them.

It is easier for female friends to hear about your concerns and anxieties that are caused by the inadequate erection, and it is also helpful for both of you to discuss these issues with each other.

展现积极的态度

If you have any questions or comments about this, please feel free to contact us at any time.

In this way, we can convey the message of "hope that both of us will overcome the disease together" and "we will sincerely face the disease and treat it.

When an important companion shows a positive attitude, female friends will more easily be able to convince each other and give their support.

Submission of love expressions other than infixing

If a female friend is told that she has an "inadequate erection," she is likely to feel uneasy, and may even develop the thought that "it is not my fault.

When you send messages, you must not use any other method of expressing your love except for the insertion of additional information.

For example, increased physical contact or communication with the other person will make it more obvious that they are not in love with you, and they will be able to express their love for you in other ways, which will help you get over the feelings you have for them.

Please do not hesitate to contact Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO if you are in front of a female friend.

If a man gets an erection in front of a female friend, it is a very serious problem, and can cause a man to lose confidence in himself.

If you are worried about getting an erection in front of an important female friend or if you feel uneasy about maintaining a close relationship with your friend, please contact us at Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO.

Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO offers a full range of medical examinations for those who have sensitive problems or who have difficulty finding their doctor.

 

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There are many different causes for an inadequate erection in front of a female friend, but if the cause is a psychological factor, it is very important to identify the cause and take appropriate treatment.

However, when it comes to men, erection is a very sensitive issue, and many people feel embarrassed or insecure and are unable to speak to others about it.

If you have any such problems, please contact us first at Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO.

Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO specializes in treating male-specific concerns, and provides patients with a more comfortable consultation in an independent clinic setting.

In addition, for those who are anxious about receiving medical examination in person or who live far away from the hospital, we also provide medical examination service on the line.

If you wish to improve your erectile dysfunction or find a time to see your important female friend, please contact Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO.