I don't know why I can't get an erection when I have sexual intercourse with my wife, whom I love dearly..."

Many men have this problem.

If you cannot spend precious time with your wife, you may be worried that it may cause a rift in your marriage.

In this article, a doctor specializing in problems specific to men will explain in detail the causes of erectile dysfunction in front of your precious wife and how to treat it.

Psychological factors that prevent me from getting an erection in front of my wife

Psychological factors may be involved when a person is unable to spend precious time with his or her beloved wife.

Sexual activity is in a rut.

Many couples who have been engaged in the same routine of sexual intercourse for a long time often find that the atmosphere is no longer fresh and they are stuck in a rut.

Rut makes for less excitement.This can cause difficulty in achieving an erection.

Past trauma and pressure

Complaints and complaints about sexual activity, etc.I have a history of bad experiences.or an invitation to engage in sexual activity.I have experienced many rejections.In some cases, the trauma may make it difficult to get an erection.

I don't feel sexually aroused by my wife as a woman.

Many men change their perception of "wife = family" after spending a long time together before and after marriage.

As a result, he no longer feels sexual arousal as a woman toward his wife, and in some cases, "I no longer get erections in front of my wife.

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Physiological factors that prevent me from getting an erection in front of my wife

If there are no psychological factors that come to mind, physiological factors are likely.

Lifestyle Disruption

Lifestyle disturbances can have a significant impact on erections.

• Irregular and unbalanced diet
• Excessive alcohol consumption and smoking
• insufficient exercise
• Irregular lifestyle (e.g., sleeping hours)

Lifestyle factors such as blood flow andHormonal imbalance interferes with sexual functionThere are times when

Poor circulation due to aging

Aging is another cause of difficulty in getting an erection.

An erection occurs when sufficient blood flows to the penis. However, with age, blood vessels become stiffer, making it more difficult for blood to flow smoothly.

As a result, the erectionNecessary blood supply to the penis is not sufficient, making it difficult to achieve an erection.Men are not few.

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What to do when you lose your erection against your wife

If a man stops getting erections with his beloved wife, he may be concerned that she is no longer seen as a woman....

However, this problem is not only for men, but also for their wives, who are worried that I am no longer attractive as a woman....

Here are some tips on how to avoid this situation

discuss thoroughly

The issue of "losing an erection" is very sensitive and difficult to discuss.

However, keeping it to yourself will not solve the problem and may deepen the rift in the couple's relationship.

First, face your wife and be honest with her about your concerns.It is important for couples to look for ways to improveIt is.

More skinship and freshness.

A date with just the two of you, etc,Increasing skinship is one way.It is.

By going out to unusual places, you may regain freshness, break out of a rut, and feel a renewed sense of attractiveness as a woman.

Change the environment

When you are having sexual intercourse only in your bedroom at home, why not change the atmosphere a little?

Moving the environment to a hotel instead of home, or some other place that you do not visit as often after marriage, may help you regain the feelings you had when you were dating and improve your erectile dysfunction.

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Treatment for loss of erection in front of wife

There are many causes of erectile dysfunction, but treatment from a medical perspective may help.

Psychotherapy and counseling

If psychological factors, such as past trauma or rut, are the cause of the lack of erection, psychotherapy or counseling may help.

As psychiatric treatment for psychogenic ED, the following medical treatments are considered effective in ED practice guidelines.

psychoanalytic therapy	supportive psychotherapy	Intensive Sensory Therapy
autogenic training	desensitization therapy	focal sensation technique
couples therapy	sex education	focal sensation technique

Reference:The Japanese Society for Sexual Function / The Japanese Urological Association "Guidelines for ED Treatment [3rd Edition]".

Utilization of ED medications

ED drugs can be expected to widen blood vessels and improve blood flow when sexual arousal is felt, and to inhibit enzymes that prevent erections from occurring.

Although some people are uncomfortable with the idea of taking ED medications, successful sexual activity with the help of medications can help restore confidence and improve erectile dysfunction caused by psychological factors.

If it is due to aging, therapeutic drugs are used, and if it is due to psychological factors, counseling and therapeutic drugs are used together, etc,Use different treatments for different causes.This can be highly effective by

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If you have any concerns about your marital relationship at night, please contact Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO.

The inability to get an erection in front of your wife, with whom you have shared your life for a long time, is a very sensitive issue, and many people spend their days worrying about a rift in their marital relationship because they are unable to confide their problems to someone else.

If you have any of these concerns, please feel free to consult with Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO first.

Because Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO specializes in the delicate concerns of men, we provide consultations in a completely private room.

We also offer online consultations, making it possible for those who are "too shy to meet in person" or who live far away.

summary

The problem of "no longer being able to get an erection in front of my precious wife" is a very serious problem not only for a husband but also for a man.

However, there are many people who cannot talk to anyone about their delicate problems and keep them to themselves.

If you are worried about regaining your erection and spending more time with your precious wife, please contact Men's Pride Clinic MITA TOKYO.

We will help you regain the wonderful time you have with your wife as a couple and as a precious woman.